Perspective is everything.
I recently completed a Bible study that guaranteed that there was positive in every situation. This is a Biblical concept (I Thessalonians 5:18 and others). I myself have said that any significant growth in life is usually painful. Some circumstances are obvious in their positive, others not so much.
Recently I was convicted to put this theory to the test.
Several weeks ago we started seeing signs for road side peach stands. One Sunday we decided to patronize one these and get some peaches! Finally! We were going to get some Georgia peaches, fresh from the tree. We even told the boys, "We are in Georgia and they have the best peaches in the whole United States!" (We've been working on geography.)
We arrived home, washed a peach and cut it up to partake. It was awful! Apparently Georgia peaches don't get really good until July (so I was told by a local). Desmond even called me on it and said "Mom, I don't think Georgia has the best peaches!"
Fast forward a few days and we suddenly notice gnats hovering over said peaches. Hmmmm. Washed the peaches really well. The next day we still noticed bugs. So I washed them again, peeled and baked them in a cobbler.
Slowly but surely I start noticing these bugs more and more and this last week they got to the point and that even the boys were noticing! Yuck.
Now here came my conviction. I was really upset, angry even, that these people had sold us peaches, they didn't taste good AND they had introduced gnats into our home. I got really good at killing gnats (even impresses Marc) because I was so mad that I would want to "get 'em".
Then the Lord whispered in my ear, "Give thanks for all things." What?!
Fine. Ok, Lord, thank you for the gnats because..... And then my mind went blank, because why? What good had come from from these nasty bugs annoying my every kitchen endeavor?
I could be thankful they hadn't spread ALL over the house, or that they hadn't been a disease ridden species. But to give thanks for what they were? Stumped.
That night, though, as Marc and I battled side by side to set up gnat traps (see pic below) and to clean every. single. nook and cranny in our kitchen and dining area, I started to see the light.
Here are my 2 thanks for gnats.
1. Marc and I have been really busy but suddenly we had a project to do *together* and one where we could chat and get caught up while doing it. Praise God for gnats.
2. I have really wanted to get better at cleaning up after meals. I always clean up *eventually* but the boys are usually off and running and so I get distracted from cleaning up right away. I have even prayed that God would help me remember to clean up immediately after meals so that we are ready to go at the next meal. Well, with the gnats I HAVE to clean up right away to prevent them feeding and breeding. Praise God for gnats.
It is bittersweet and sometimes very difficult to give thanks for unwanted and even painful circumstances but in the end we serve a God who is faithful and works
all things for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).
P.S. The gnats are almost gone and I praise God for that, too. =)
One of our gnat traps - vinegar and dish soap, they are attracted to it and then just drown. Pretty cool, huh? But also kinda gross.